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Lost between Diamonds, Makeup and Hairspray

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Today, if you were to check my Facebook page, I had a to do list all mapped out.  Well, somehow I got lost between posting that this morning bright and early and doting on myself.  I went from wanting to knock things off my list to spending some me time in a matter of minutes.  Will I get my list done today? Perhaps.

In life we get so caught up in pleasing those around us that we forget sometimes that we are just as important.  We need to take time for us before we are broken and battered and of no use to others.  I enjoy spending time with me.  I like to see what magic I can do with my hair and make up.  I like trying on clothes.  I like decorating myself with diamonds just for fun.  I guess what I am trying to say is simple:  I like me.

Now, I did not arrive to this position about myself overnight and the older I get the more I like myself and who I have become.  I have allowed God to change me from the inside.  The more I believe what His Word says about me, the more I am happy to focus on me so that I can encourage others to do the same!

My husband asked me this morning why I was so good to him.  Silly man, because I love you.  But I can honestly say that I am as confident in who I am today because of his love.  I was broken from a past relationship and it has taken time and a lot of healing for me to even say I like myself.  God used my husband to love me back together.  He picked up the broken pieces of my heart and gently and patiently helped me heal.  I wrote him this Facebook post today:

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God has used my husband to teach me the principle of loving myself.  When I do not feel good about who I am, then I am not very easily persuaded to help anyone else feel good either.  However, when I am confident in who I am, I can boldly help someone in need of a love tap.  I can lovingly tell someone who is down and out and beating themselves up that they are worthy of love and mean it.

So how do we begin the journey of falling in love with who we are so that we can be a blessing to others?  One step at a time.  One Bible verse at a time.  One minute for ourselves. One moment of encouragement can do a whole lot of good.  Sometimes I wish I could start my career over and just become a motivator, then I think about the people I may have impacted and perhaps I already have done that.

Last point:  the definition of love is an intense feeling of affection and the definition of yourself is you personally.  Put these two together and you get this:  Feeling intensely affectionate for you personally.  I know that sounds a bit strange but let’s look at it from God’s perspective:

God feels intensely affectionate for you personally because God is love.


Wow! How powerful is that statement?  Let that permeate through you right now.  Allow that to just sink right in.  When you realize the God of the universe is in love with who you are, it’s the first step to beginning to love you!

Dear God, I stand before you today with the knowledge that you love me personally.  Help me to receive that into my spirit.  Help me to see who I really am.  Let the love process begin in me today.  Show me something about who I am that I can love.  Thank You for accepting me just as I am, a work in progress.  I thank you for the revelation to come.  In Jesus Name Amen

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Reflections of the Follower

1 Peter 4:14-16

If you’re abused because of Christ, count yourself fortunate. It’s the Spirit of God and his glory in you that brought you to the notice of others. If they’re on you because you broke the law or disturbed the peace, that’s a different matter. But if it’s because you’re a Christian, don’t give it a second thought. Be proud of the distinguished status reflected in that name!
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Well, last week we rested, renewed and let Jesus hit that RESET button..so what’s next?  Hmmm.. reflections.  Let’s do a little exercise.  Go look at yourself in a mirror, any mirror available.  Go ahead, I will wait……
Okay, what did you see?  Did you like the reflection?  Did you find flaws?  Did you point out anything you wanted to change about the reflection?  Was there anything you were happy with?
Now, how do you think people see your refection as a Christian?  Does the reflection of who you are match up with who God is?  Do people want to see something change in you?  Does the reflection make people happy or sad?  Do you like your reflection of God?
I know, these are tough questions but let me lighten the mood and show you I surely am not attacking you or how you reflect God.  I “mirrorly” want to show you how to get to the place where you can reflect God in such a way there will be no questions about who you are in Christ.
First of all, let me let you off the hook…you are human and humans make mistakes and it’s okay.  We cannot come to the place where our reflections match our God until we choose to rest, renew and reflect.  We need to remember that from the moment we say yes to Jesus He says yes to pushing the reset button and the process begins.  Some things we learn quickly and a result it seen almost immediately.  Other changes take time and perseverance.  It all begins with listening to God and being obedient and open to His will for your life.
Now, the world is filled with mean, unsaved people and our mission is to share Jesus with all of the those people and shed Light into the darkness.  I know it’s not easy especially when some of the people knew the former you.  They know what you did last summer and perhaps are still mad at what you did.  Who knows?  We often get caught up in thinking that WE have to doing something to change the world when in reality it’s all up to Jesus!
So what I want us to focus on today is simple….what messages are we sending to those around us?  Are we reflecting Jesus when we talk about our co-workers?  Are we reflecting Jesus when we drive angry?  Are we shedding Light into the darkness when we speak harshly to others?  We need to understand that being a Christian is a 24/7/365 reality.  Yes, we will make mistakes and that’s okay as long as we remember that was just part of our old-self rearing it’s ugly head for a moment.  Know that it is not a part of the new you.  Let Jesus hit the rest button on that area of your life and try again.
How can we keep our reflection one of Jesus?  REST.  RENEW.  RESET. I know it sounds simple…it is!  Let Jesus change you from the inside out.  Disregard the bad from the world and let God be your vindicator, you are just called to love.  Choose to love you.  Choose to love Jesus.  Choose to love the ugly of this world. When you do all these things your reflection will become all that God intended it to be!